If anyone says, "I love
God," but hates his brother, he is a liar; for whoever does not love a brother
whom he has seen cannot love God whom he has not seen. This is the commandment we
have from him: whoever loves God must also love his brother.
--1 John 4:20-21
Hard cheese in a time of polarization and atomization, especially for those who've decided to render unto Caesar what is God's. Then again, as the late philosopher, Fr. James V. Schall, asserted, "We are living in a time where the logic of disorder is at work, rejecting systematically the logic of being a human being." Father Schall was also well-known for asserting that it is important for a philosopher "to say of what is, that it is, and of what is not, that it is not." John, the "beloved apostle," declares what Christian love is and what it is not. If you don't like that, fine. Just don't call yourself a "Christian," because you're not.
As I write this, I'm gazing in a mirror, not as Narcissus would, but as St. Paul might have.
"The Christian ideal has not been tried and found wanting. It has been found difficult; and left untried."